The Change of Seasons

I wonder if I'm alone when I think that people pick their times to change when it's time for the seasons to. Guys & girls wanna be booed up in the colder seasons and in the warmer seasons they wanna be single and not tied down to one person. One of my friends just broke up with is girl of , something like 3 years, because she didn't wanna be tied down. Ummmm excuse me sweetie you have been tied down for awhile now so what's the problem now? Granted she could've wanted out but after 3 years of being tied down you don't want that anymore. Why is this? In my own personal life: Why are guys who are usually so nonchalant starting to become over emotional all of a sudden? Can we say menstrual cycle? One day you're fine and not giving a fuck but the next you're upset and angry because I'm the same way...WTF is that about? But I'm a bitch when I up and flip the script or I'm emotional when I change with the wind but him he's just upset or mad. Why is that the only emotion that most men are most comfortable or readily to show is anger and its synonyms? If I walk around only expressing those things I'm a bitch again! I'm too aggressive I think I am a man. I'm too submissive I'm too weak. BULLSHIT!